Tuesday, October 25, 2011

How to Know when Your Relationship is Over -Surprisingly Revealing Signs

Is your relationship out of control? Perhaps you and your partner once enjoyed a satisfying relationship. No matter why the relationship is falling apart, here are some signs that there is absolutely no chance of recovery.

How You Know When Your Relationship Is Over: Stuck in the Situation

Do you feel as though the relationship is non-changing and is getting boring? Do both of you come home only to spend your time away from each other? If this sounds familiar then your relationship is stuck and not improving as time goes by. This is one of the biggest signs on how you know when your relationship is over.

When the two of you act more like indifferent roommates, your relationship is basically stuck in a rut. When a relationship is about to fail, this is one of the most glaring signs. There are many reasons why partners are acting distant with each other, usually though, the culprit is stress. With the amount of stress we feel every day, people usually choose to zone out and “numb” whatever they are feeling.

How You Know When Your Relationship Is Over: Constant Argument

Relationships normally have that occasional fight. You and your partner are individuals and would usually have varying opinions. It’s bound to happen that the two of you will have a difference of opinion. However, there’s a big difference between healthy fights and dangerous ones. Healthy means that you have the ability to express your opinions without insults hurled at each other. With a successful fight, the two of you will still be able to resolve the problem or at least conclude it to each other’s satisfaction.

Some couples intend to win whenever they’re in a fight. Is your relationship still as satisfying and happy whenever you “win” an argument? Not usually, especially since the relationship tends to “lose” whenever you “win” the argument.

How You Know When Your Relationship Is Over: The Chemistry is Gone

During the start of the relationship, there’s a good chance that you and your partner feel as though everything is perfect. After some time, the spark you had during the start of the relationship is no longer as strong but can still be felt. This spark is the attraction you have for each other. This chemistry is the reason why you aren’t merely friends and instead are in a romantic relationship. The minute that spark runs out, the relationship is stuck in a rut and is already headed downhill from there.

To prevent that attraction from happening, you should always be curious about your partner and their life. Your partner has individual thoughts, fears and emotions â€" be curious about what those are.

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